Tools for Better Dating and Stronger Relationships

Featuring The Cupid Code and The Venus Code by Jason Seymour & Charolette Guetzkow, LMFT

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Two complementary guides for navigating dating, attraction, communication, and long-term relationships.

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How the Two Books Work Together

Each book covers different parts of the romantic journey — but both are designed to help you create deeper connection, clearer communication, and a more fulfilling relationship.

Together, they create a complete, modern framework for attracting love, deepening connection and building the relationship you truly want.

The Cupid Code

Originally written to help you navigate dating with confidence, The Cupid Code is just as powerful once you’re already in a relationship.

It helps you:

  • communicate more clearly

  • understand emotional signals

  • strengthen your bond

  • keep romance alive

It focuses on how connection starts and how it’s maintained.

The Venus Code

The Venus Code goes deeper into emotional intimacy, long-term compatibility and the everyday communication patterns that shape a healthy relationship.

It guides you through:

  • building trust

  • navigating conflict

  • nurturing long-term closeness

  • sustaining a partnership that thrives

It focuses on how connection grows and lasts.

The Cupid Code

The Cupid Code helps you understand how attraction is formed, how emotional signals work, and how to communicate in ways that build connection. Even if you’re already in a relationship, these tools help you express your needs more clearly, read your partner more accurately, and keep romance alive while strengthening your bond.

What you’ll gain:

• Clarity about what truly sparks attraction and creates genuine connection

• Tools for expressing interest without pressure

• Ways to communicate so conversations feel easy and enjoyable

• A grounded understanding of how real rapport develops

• Insight into your own “romance style” and how it shapes your connections

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Cover image of The Venus Code by Jason Seymour and Charolette Guetzkow, LMFT — a guide to intimacy, communication, and building deeper emotional connection.

The Venus Code goes deeper into the emotional patterns that shape long-term connection. You’ll learn how trust is formed, how misunderstandings escalate and how to communicate in ways that strengthen rather than strain the relationship.

Whether you’re in a new connection or a long-standing partnership, these tools help you navigate conflict more gracefully, create deeper emotional safety and nurture the closeness that keeps a relationship thriving.

It’s a grounded, psychology-informed guide to sustaining love, increasing understanding and cultivating the kind of partnership that grows richer over time.

The Venus Code

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You'll explore:

• How to communicate in ways that bring you closer

• How to understand emotional needs—your own and your partner’s

• How to stay connected during moments of stress or conflict

• How to cultivate warmth, affection, and daily intimacy

• Learn to forgive in a way that rebuilds trust

• Stay connected through stress, distance or life transitions

• Discover how to build or rekindle desire

Love Codes Reviews

Real experiences from verified readers who used The Cupid Code and The Venus Code to strengthen communication, deepen emotional connection, and transform their relationships.

Cupid Code Reviews

★★★★★ — Verified Purchaser

“Transformed how I connect. The warmth and trustworthiness insights alone are life-changing.”

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“A beautifully written, deeply wise guide. It strengthened my relationship immediately.”

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“Specific, actionable, and truly eye-opening. I wish I had this book years ago.”

★★★★★ — Verified Purchaser

“Down-to-earth, relatable, and genuinely fun. My dating life makes so much more sense now.”

★★★★★ — Verified Purchaser

“This book rescued my marriage. Curiosity and better questions saved us.”

★★★★★ — Verified Purchaser

“Therapists should be using this. It’s that therapeutic.”

Venus Code Reviews

★★★★★ — Verified Purchaser

“Transforms everyday moments into sacred intimacy. Science + practical tools = a deeper, more playful bond.”

★★★★★ — Verified Purchaser

“Warm, wise, and beautifully written. A guide to authentic closeness without fluff.”

★★★★★ — Verified Purchaser

“‘Preemptive love’ changed my marriage. This book teaches generosity, attunement, and the small acts that keep romance alive.”

★★★★★ — Verified Purchaser

“Shows how emotional safety creates real intimacy. This book is healing.”

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About the Authors

Jason Seymour is a dating and relationships author who brings together psychology, communication science, and real-world insight to help people build deeper, healthier, more intentional relationships. He is the co-author of The Cupid Code and The Venus Code.

Charolette Guetzkow, LMFT, is a licensed marriage and family therapist with decades of experience guiding individuals and couples toward emotional clarity, healthy communication, and true intimacy. Her warm, grounded, research-driven style helps partners feel understood and supported.

Together, Jason and Charolette created The Love Codes Collection to give readers timeless tools for attraction, connection, emotional intelligence, and lifelong partnership.

Ready to Transform Your Love Life?

Whether you're dating, building a new relationship, or deepening a long-term partnership, The Love Codes give you the tools to communicate with confidence, create genuine connection, and keep romance alive.

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Many readers choose to get both books for the complete Love Codes experience.

“This book transformed how I show up in dating.”


“Deep, practical, and surprisingly moving.”


“Every chapter made my relationship stronger.”


“Warm, wise, and immediately useful.”


“A roadmap for real connection.”

Coaching & Guidance

Sometimes a book opens the door—and a conversation helps you walk through it. If you’re looking for clarity in dating, attraction, communication or strengthening your relationship, we offer 1-on-1 coaching designed to support you every step of the way. Our sessions are practical, grounded and tailored to help you apply the principles from The Cupid Code and The Venus Code to real life.

Coaching can help you:

• Understand emotional cues and communication patterns


• Navigate dating and relationships with more confidence and clarity


• Strengthen connection in new or existing relationships


• Communicate your needs with greater ease and compassion


• Break old patterns and build healthier dynamics

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