The Cupid Code
How to Succeed at Dating, Attraction & Romance
A clear guide rooted in both science and heart, helping you date with confidence and build genuine connection.
Available in paperback, Kindle and Audible.
Why The Cupid Code Works
Tools to help you date with more ease, warmth and self-assurance — no scripts, no games.
✔️ Distills the latest relationship psychology into clear, practical steps.
✔️ Teaches you how attraction really works on a neurological and emotional level.
✔️ Shows you how to communicate in ways that spark connection, warmth, and ease.
✔️ Helps you build genuine rapport rather than chase or force chemistry.
What You’ll Learn Inside The Cupid Code
How attraction actually works — biologically, emotionally and cognitively
How to read signals, micro-expressions, and subtle cues without overthinking
How to show genuine warmth, confidence and high-value clarity
How to communicate in ways that spark interest and deepen rapport
How to stop chasing and start choosing — with discernment and self-trust
How to move from texting to real dates with ease
How to navigate early dating, ambiguity, and pacing without anxiety
How to build the foundations for real compatibility and lasting connection
Discover the mindsets and abilities that turn confusing dating dynamics into meaningful connections.
Understand the deeper forces that shape chemistry and interest.
Express warmth and clarity in ways that feel natural and confident.
Develop the skills that foster trust, rapport and genuine intimacy.
What Readers Are Saying
Sam J. — Verified Reader
“A fascinating, evidence-based guide that shows how warmth and trustworthiness create real connection.”
★★★★★
M.L. Hodges — Verified Reader
“Beautifully written and full of insight — it feels like a warm, personal conversation that genuinely transforms how you connect.”
★★★★★
Doctor Mom — Verified Reader
“Packed with specific, actionable advice. I found answers to questions I didn’t even know I had.”
★★★★★
About the Authors
Jason Seymour
Jason Seymour is a dating and relationships author who blends psychology, communication science, and real-world insight to help people build deeper, healthier, and more intentional relationships. He is the co-author of The Cupid Code.
Charolette Guetzkow, LMFT
Charolette Guetzkow, LMFT, is a licensed marriage and family therapist with decades of experience helping individuals and couples cultivate emotional clarity, healthy communication, and genuine intimacy. Her warm, grounded, research-driven style helps people feel understood, supported, and empowered.
Together
Together, Jason and Charolette created The Cupid Code to give readers timeless, practical tools for attraction, connection, emotional intelligence, and lasting partnership.
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