The Venus Code

How to Succeed at Love, Intimacy & Relationships

A clear guide rooted in both science and heart, helping you deepen love, nurture intimacy, and build enduring connection.

Available in paperback, Kindle and Audible.

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Why The Venus Code Works

Tools to help you navigate relationships with more ease, warmth, and self-assurance — no scripts, no games.

✔️ Distills the latest relationship psychology into clear, practical steps for deeper intimacy.

✔️ Explains how love and bonding work on a neurological and emotional level.

✔️ Shows you how to communicate in ways that nurture safety, warmth, and lasting connection.

✔️ Helps you strengthen genuine emotional attunement rather than chase or force compatibility.

What You’ll Learn Inside The Venus Code

How love and bonding really work — biologically, emotionally and neurologically
How to read your partner’s signals, micro-expressions, tone shifts and emotional incongruities
How to express warmth, emotional safety and grounded self-assurance in ways that strengthen intimacy
How to stop reacting from insecurity and start choosing love with discernment and self-trust
How to shift from surface-level interaction to meaningful shared intimacy—emotionally, physically and relationally
How to navigate conflict, emotional pacing, mismatched needs, and vulnerability without anxiety or shutdown
How to bulletproof your relationship against infidelity by building safety, trust, clear boundaries and ongoing emotional connection
How to express anticipatory love by noticing what your partner needs, taking initiative and creating a relationship where both people feel deeply supported

Discover the mindsets and abilities that turn relational tensions into opportunities for intimacy, growth and secure connection.

Understand the deeper emotional currents that shape closeness and connection.

Understand the deeper foundations that allow love to feel safe, steady and enduring.

Understand the deeper dynamics that shape attraction, arousal, and lasting sensual connection.

What Readers Are Saying

Miranda H. — Verified Reader
“Poetic, profound, and filled with practical tools that turn everyday moments into genuine intimacy.”
★★★★★

P. T. — Verified Reader
“Warm, research-backed, and beautifully written — a rare guide that makes deep connection feel truly attainable.”
★★★★★

Alexander L. — Verified Reader
“Shows how real intimacy begins with emotional safety — slowing down, listening, and truly seeing the person you love.”
★★★★★

About the Authors

Jason Seymour

Jason Seymour is a dating and relationships author who blends psychology, communication science, and real-world insight to help people build deeper, healthier, and more emotionally intelligent partnerships. His work focuses on the subtle emotional skills—attunement, co-regulation, secure connection—that sustain intimacy over time. He is the co-author of The Cupid Code and brings a grounded, research-informed voice to the modern conversation about love.

Charolette Guetzkow, LMFT

Charolette Guetzkow, LMFT, is a licensed marriage and family therapist with decades of experience helping individuals and couples cultivate emotional clarity, secure attachment, and meaningful closeness. Her warm, compassionate, and research-driven approach empowers people to understand their inner world, communicate with confidence, and build lasting intimacy rooted in trust and emotional safety.

Together

Together, Jason and Charolette created The Venus Code to give readers a deeper, more soulful roadmap to love—one that blends science, psychology, and modern relationship insight with timeless tools for intimacy, emotional connection, and long-term partnership. Following the success of The Cupid Code, they continue to offer clear, practical guidance for anyone seeking to love with intention, warmth, and authenticity.